For 20 years he has been the artistic director of the Vineyard Theater, a small downtown company known for producing world premieres of plays like Edward Albeeâs âThree Tall Womenâ and Paula Vogelâs âHow I Learned to Drive,â as well as the more recent Broadway musical âAvenue Q.â While this would seem like an all-consuming job, Mr. Aibel wears a second hat as a casting director for Hollywood movies, such